What must I do, if i lose my feeling towards you?
If I feel I can't stand by you anymore....
Love is gone, nothing left
My heart not beating, only heartache
Suatu siang seorang teman tiba2 menyapa di YMku
Teman : Lina, I feel bad.
Aku : Why
Teman : My wife committed suicide yesterday. she try to cut herself with 3 knife. Blood everywhere
Aku : What??? *kaget* Did you bring her to hospital?
teman : Yes, alhamdulillah she was alright. If something happened to her, i will be jailed. We only have a little fight and she already did the foolish thing.
Terpikir dibenakku "woman mind always different with man mind". Laki2 terlalu berpikir sederhana, sedangkan perempuan suka bermain dengan perasaan dan kait mengait yang akhirnya terkadang jadi rumit. Tak bisanya rasa hati yang sejalan membuat akhirnya menjadi keributan yang tak terelakkan.
Kesibukan yang menyita, Keengganan untuk berbagi dan berkomunikasi,pikiran yang terlalu tercurah pada anak-anak membuat rasa cinta yang dulu kuat menjadi terburai. Sehingga saat perelisihan terjadi membuat akhirnya kita mengatakan "AKU SUDAH LELAH.... !!! I'M GIVE UP...."
OH NO.... Don't Ever Say That, Hidup memang tak selalu indah. Hanya cerita dalam dongeng saja yang indah. Do you ever think, if you give up, all the problem will be gone? The answer "NO, You will have another problem in your life. Believe me."
Jadi selelah apapun, sesakit apapun, cobalah bertahan dan mencari obatnya. Saat sedih dan sakit, menangislah, mengadulah ke Allah SWT sang pemberi hidup. Tapi tak cukup hanya itu dan hanya berdiam diri dan berharap keajaiban itu datang. Mencari bantuan dari seorang yang benar2 bisa dipercaya mungkin bisa meringankan. Percayalah, mahligai pernikahan adalah suatu yang patut kita perjuangkan. Karena kita telah memilih pasangan kita. Walaupun mungkin terbersit di benak "Did I marry the right person?" cause the answer "there are no right person with you, But you must make the person you choose are right"
Sekali lagi aku tidak akan menjudge jalan yang teman2ku pilih, tapi apapun itu pasti harus terpikir dengan baik, sehingga tidak ada sesal kemudian. Kedua belah pihak harus saling membantu untuk berjuang melewati segala aral lintang. Percayalah... ada waktunya "BADAI PASTI BERLALU....."
(didedikasikan buat teman yang istrinya sdg mengalami goncangan, dan dua temanku yg sedang mengahadapi gugatan... semoga semuanya berakhir dengan baik)
Showing posts with label personal. Show all posts
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Tuesday, December 2, 2008
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Breast Cancer.. please aware my friend
I just want to share this article because yesterday i met a doctor, and she found a lump in my breast. Still don't know yet what it it is (hiks..hiks..), the doctor just gave me antibiotic and asked me to see her again after my period. I just want to all my friend aware of breast cancer.
want to support breast cancer campaign?? u can re-post this in your blog
What is the symptom
The first symptom, or subjective sign, of breast cancer is typically a lump that feels different than the surrounding breast tissue. According to the Merck Manual, more than 80% of breast cancer cases are discovered when the woman feels a lump. According to the American Cancer Society (ACS), the first medical sign, or objective indication of breast cancer as detected by a physician, is discovered by mammogram.Lumps found in lymph nodes located in the armpits and/or collarbone [citation needed] can also indicate breast cancer.
Indications of breast cancer other than a lump may include changes in breast size or shape, skin dimpling, nipple inversion, or spontaneous single-nipple discharge. Pain is an unreliable tool in determining the presence of breast cancer, but may be indicative of other breast-related health issues such as mastodynia.
When breast cancer cells invade the dermal lymphatics, small lymph vessels in the skin of the breast, its presentation can resemble skin inflammation and thus is known as inflammatory breast cancer (IBC). Symptoms of inflammatory breast cancer include pain, swelling, warmth and redness throughout the breast, as well as an orange peel texture to the skin referred to as peau d'orange.
Another reported symptom complex of breast cancer is Paget's disease of the breast. This syndrome presents as eczematoid skin changes such as redness and mild flaking of the nipple skin. As Paget's advances, symptoms may include tingling, itching, increased sensitivity, burning, and pain. There may also be discharge from the nipple. Approximately half of women diagnosed with Paget's also have a lump in the breast.
Occasionally, breast cancer presents as metastatic disease, that is, cancer that has spread beyond the original organ. Metastatic breast cancer will cause symptoms that depend on the location of metastasis. More common sites of metastasis include bone, liver, lung and brain. Unexplained weight loss can occasionally herald an occult breast cancer, as can symptoms of fevers or chills. Bone or joint pains can sometimes be manifestations of metastatic breast cancer, as can jaundice or neurological symptoms. These symptoms are "non-specific," meaning they can also be manifestations of many other illnesses.
Most symptoms of breast disorder do not turn out to represent underlying breast cancer. Benign breast diseases such as mastitis and fibroadenoma of the breast are more common causes of breast disorder symptoms. The appearance of a new symptom should be taken seriously by both patients and their doctors, because of the possibility of an underlying breast cancer at almost any age.
About what happen with me... I just try to find out the answer, cause i feel a pain in my breast and feel burn just in one side. If you ever got the same sympton you can read this.
PAIN>>
Breast pain is more commonly associated with non-cancerous changes than with cancerous changes to the breast tissue. Equal discomfort in both breasts is most commonly benign. But new and persistent discomfort in only one breast may be of concern, particularly if it's getting worse, not better.
In your situation where you have intermittent right breast pain AND a mammogram that suggests the possibility of cancerous findings, you need to seek further evaluation to make sure everything is OK—even if the sonogram (aka ultrasound) is "OK."
Express your concerns to your doctor. Ask to be referred to a surgeon who specializes in breast cancer (if a simple "ask" doesn't result in a referral, demand it). A simple core needle biopsy of the area of concern seen on mammogram may be recommended. Hopefully all is fine, but it's worth being pushy and demanding in order to get what you need—just to be sure.
BURN>>
A burning sensation in one breast that persists over time should be evaluated by a doctor, just to make sure everything is OK. Don't assume that you have cancer—most likely it's not cancer. But still you need to make sure
I just can breath after gathering this information, even it doesn't mean I stop for the observation. As its till commonly situation, I won't take a risk. i wish everything ok.
How to screening
Maybe all off you have heard about mammography but never did that test (just like me haha.. but i will do it soon)
What is mammography for????
X-ray mammography uses x-rays to examine the breast for any uncharacteristic masses or lumps. Regular mammograms -- the process of getting breast mammography -- is often recommended as a preventative measure, particularly for older women and at-risk individuals. A recent study involving 160,921 women recruited at age 39-41 showed that annual screening mammograms up to age 48 did decrease breast cancer mortality over an average of 10.7 years. This reduction, however, was not statistically significant. The results may be due to chance. According to these findings, about 2,500 women would need to be screened to prevent one breast cancer death during this time period.
OK FOR ALL MY FRIEND... Lets Check up your self, or check ur beloved one. So u can save ur life or ur beloved life.
source : this n this
want to support breast cancer campaign?? u can re-post this in your blog
What is the symptom
The first symptom, or subjective sign, of breast cancer is typically a lump that feels different than the surrounding breast tissue. According to the Merck Manual, more than 80% of breast cancer cases are discovered when the woman feels a lump. According to the American Cancer Society (ACS), the first medical sign, or objective indication of breast cancer as detected by a physician, is discovered by mammogram.Lumps found in lymph nodes located in the armpits and/or collarbone [citation needed] can also indicate breast cancer.
Indications of breast cancer other than a lump may include changes in breast size or shape, skin dimpling, nipple inversion, or spontaneous single-nipple discharge. Pain is an unreliable tool in determining the presence of breast cancer, but may be indicative of other breast-related health issues such as mastodynia.
When breast cancer cells invade the dermal lymphatics, small lymph vessels in the skin of the breast, its presentation can resemble skin inflammation and thus is known as inflammatory breast cancer (IBC). Symptoms of inflammatory breast cancer include pain, swelling, warmth and redness throughout the breast, as well as an orange peel texture to the skin referred to as peau d'orange.
Another reported symptom complex of breast cancer is Paget's disease of the breast. This syndrome presents as eczematoid skin changes such as redness and mild flaking of the nipple skin. As Paget's advances, symptoms may include tingling, itching, increased sensitivity, burning, and pain. There may also be discharge from the nipple. Approximately half of women diagnosed with Paget's also have a lump in the breast.
Occasionally, breast cancer presents as metastatic disease, that is, cancer that has spread beyond the original organ. Metastatic breast cancer will cause symptoms that depend on the location of metastasis. More common sites of metastasis include bone, liver, lung and brain. Unexplained weight loss can occasionally herald an occult breast cancer, as can symptoms of fevers or chills. Bone or joint pains can sometimes be manifestations of metastatic breast cancer, as can jaundice or neurological symptoms. These symptoms are "non-specific," meaning they can also be manifestations of many other illnesses.
Most symptoms of breast disorder do not turn out to represent underlying breast cancer. Benign breast diseases such as mastitis and fibroadenoma of the breast are more common causes of breast disorder symptoms. The appearance of a new symptom should be taken seriously by both patients and their doctors, because of the possibility of an underlying breast cancer at almost any age.
About what happen with me... I just try to find out the answer, cause i feel a pain in my breast and feel burn just in one side. If you ever got the same sympton you can read this.
PAIN>>
Breast pain is more commonly associated with non-cancerous changes than with cancerous changes to the breast tissue. Equal discomfort in both breasts is most commonly benign. But new and persistent discomfort in only one breast may be of concern, particularly if it's getting worse, not better.
In your situation where you have intermittent right breast pain AND a mammogram that suggests the possibility of cancerous findings, you need to seek further evaluation to make sure everything is OK—even if the sonogram (aka ultrasound) is "OK."
Express your concerns to your doctor. Ask to be referred to a surgeon who specializes in breast cancer (if a simple "ask" doesn't result in a referral, demand it). A simple core needle biopsy of the area of concern seen on mammogram may be recommended. Hopefully all is fine, but it's worth being pushy and demanding in order to get what you need—just to be sure.
BURN>>
A burning sensation in one breast that persists over time should be evaluated by a doctor, just to make sure everything is OK. Don't assume that you have cancer—most likely it's not cancer. But still you need to make sure
I just can breath after gathering this information, even it doesn't mean I stop for the observation. As its till commonly situation, I won't take a risk. i wish everything ok.
How to screening
Maybe all off you have heard about mammography but never did that test (just like me haha.. but i will do it soon)
What is mammography for????
X-ray mammography uses x-rays to examine the breast for any uncharacteristic masses or lumps. Regular mammograms -- the process of getting breast mammography -- is often recommended as a preventative measure, particularly for older women and at-risk individuals. A recent study involving 160,921 women recruited at age 39-41 showed that annual screening mammograms up to age 48 did decrease breast cancer mortality over an average of 10.7 years. This reduction, however, was not statistically significant. The results may be due to chance. According to these findings, about 2,500 women would need to be screened to prevent one breast cancer death during this time period.
OK FOR ALL MY FRIEND... Lets Check up your self, or check ur beloved one. So u can save ur life or ur beloved life.
source : this n this
Monday, November 17, 2008
SELINGKUH...Kucinta Kau tapi Ku lebih Suka Bersamanya
Kenapa sih hati bisa selingkuh.... selingan Indah ingin kurengkuh hihihi. Karena mungkin dg selingkuhan hidup lebih indah. Dengan yang lama sebenarnya masih cinta tapi yahhh rasanya ku tak sanggup untuk senantiasa bersamanya.
Rasanya hatiku mulai selingkuh... PPSSTTT ini rahasia jangan bilang-bilang. Perasaan ini semakin lama semakin dalam, rasanya ga bisa lagi aku meninggalkannya. Gak kebayang kalo aku harus melepas semua hal indah-indah yang kudapat sekarang. Tolongggg....Ayo mikir apa hayooo... jangan ngeres2 ya hihihi
Daku mulai lebih memilih tinggal di Malaysia, padahal hatiku masih cinta Indonesia. Semakin hari semakin gak kebayang kalau harus balik ke Jakarta, pasti bakalan ribet ruwet dengan macet, banjir, mati listrik, mati air, sampah. Sekolah anak2? pasti mahal dan banyak ketinggalan karena beda kurikulum. Belum lagi nyaliku yang bakalan gak berani nyetir sendiri di jakarta, ngejar angkot dan bus kota lagi duhhh kebayang deh kek acar.
Tapi bukan berarti selingkuhku ini 100% bahagia soalnya di tempat selingkuhanku jauh dari sanak saudara dan gak punya teman real yang banyak. Tapi untunglah ada internet unlimited jadi aku tetep berasa punya temen walopun di dunia maya. Thanks for all of you my internet friends *hugs..* Dan satu lagi yang belum bisa selingkuh... lidahku hue hue.... masih saja selalu merindukan masakan Indonesia.
Selingkuhku tambah kuat karena babenya anak2 juga lebih dihargai disini, coba dulu di jakarta dianggep kurang mulu, promosi aja susahh... disini dinilai sebagai ASIA Talent oleh perusahaan yg HQnya di Londo sana, jadi berambisi deh untuk terus maju disini pengen ngebuktiin orang Indonesia bisa.
Ya sudahlah.. karena aku tak bisa memilih satu diantara dua jadi biarlah ku sekarang selingkuh dulu..... ntar kalo dah sadar baru tak lagi mendua hihihi....
Rasanya hatiku mulai selingkuh... PPSSTTT ini rahasia jangan bilang-bilang. Perasaan ini semakin lama semakin dalam, rasanya ga bisa lagi aku meninggalkannya. Gak kebayang kalo aku harus melepas semua hal indah-indah yang kudapat sekarang. Tolongggg....Ayo mikir apa hayooo... jangan ngeres2 ya hihihi
Daku mulai lebih memilih tinggal di Malaysia, padahal hatiku masih cinta Indonesia. Semakin hari semakin gak kebayang kalau harus balik ke Jakarta, pasti bakalan ribet ruwet dengan macet, banjir, mati listrik, mati air, sampah. Sekolah anak2? pasti mahal dan banyak ketinggalan karena beda kurikulum. Belum lagi nyaliku yang bakalan gak berani nyetir sendiri di jakarta, ngejar angkot dan bus kota lagi duhhh kebayang deh kek acar.
Tapi bukan berarti selingkuhku ini 100% bahagia soalnya di tempat selingkuhanku jauh dari sanak saudara dan gak punya teman real yang banyak. Tapi untunglah ada internet unlimited jadi aku tetep berasa punya temen walopun di dunia maya. Thanks for all of you my internet friends *hugs..* Dan satu lagi yang belum bisa selingkuh... lidahku hue hue.... masih saja selalu merindukan masakan Indonesia.
Selingkuhku tambah kuat karena babenya anak2 juga lebih dihargai disini, coba dulu di jakarta dianggep kurang mulu, promosi aja susahh... disini dinilai sebagai ASIA Talent oleh perusahaan yg HQnya di Londo sana, jadi berambisi deh untuk terus maju disini pengen ngebuktiin orang Indonesia bisa.
Ya sudahlah.. karena aku tak bisa memilih satu diantara dua jadi biarlah ku sekarang selingkuh dulu..... ntar kalo dah sadar baru tak lagi mendua hihihi....
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