Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Hide sadness upon a smile

Many people doing this, hiding their sadness upon their smile, act cool like nothing happen and laugh with other friends. Just pretend you are OK even your heart bleeding. Do you have reason to do that?

Some of them do that because they don't want anyone know their problem. They don't want anyone involve into their problem. They think they can solve it by their own. If anyone know their problem will make the problem bigger and bigger.

Anyone choose laugh in their tears because they don't want show they are weak. And just convince another that they are strong. Even they are crying when they are alone, or will happy can walk on the rain. Honestly I am one of them.

Do you think they really hide their tears. Because I one of them... I said no. In my opinion, they want to be more care from around. Because they will choose to close them self to anyone who don't know them well. The person who act like that more sensitive, and their emotion was soft. They can hide their feeling very carefully thats why no one realize about that. They will keep quiet also if you hurt their feeling, and still give you a nice smile and treat you well.

For who always hide your tears...we know thats its hard to show a fake smile in our face. Sitting alone and crying most all that we always do. Sometimes we need to release our burden. But I know too not many friend we can trust to share. And will harder when people we love never understanding us, sometimes they hurt us more than anyone else.
Try to find a way to release your burden or it will make a bad impact in your mental health. You can choose your way to release your burden as write your sadness, doing something challenging that can make you forget your sadness. We know... for the people like us, it's easy to forgive someone hurt us rather than hate or blame them for our happiness. But don't stop to try have your real smile.. anytime

Thursday, November 19, 2009

Vending machine for your business

Nowadays, many people open their own business. If you walk along in shop area you will find many shop that prepare service like salon, kids station, mini shop or other small business. As a business owner do you ever think to add your revenue by add some vending machines in your place?

Let me give an example, you own your salon. You have many customer who come to your place and buy your service. Sometimes customer need to wait for a few minutes to get your service. Don't you think they need something while waiting? For example they would like to have some candies, or some drink. Just imagine if you put a candy machines it will give you some profit. especially if your costumer bring their kids with them. Since kids like candy so much, they will ask their parent to buy them some candies. It will bring more advantage too you, not only you get profit from selling candies from candy machine, but also it will make your costumer can wait longer because their kids enjoy in there.

Another example. if you open a kids play area, you will have many kids customer in there. Do you know what they like most? Yes you right, they like toy. How if you put toy machine in your place? I think both parents and kids will be happy for that. Whenever they finish play in your place, they will ask their parent to buy toys to bring home. As we know, toys always expensive, put toy machines will really help them. Because the toys in toys machine have affordable price, and we know kids will happy for that. So it's a great way to make your customer happy.

Let's consider about that, find the suitable vending machines for your place. It will make your customer more satisfy also it give you more profit in your business.

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Nobody knows

No body knows
I feel so cold
the day was so bright
but my heart can't feel the warm of sunlight

No body knows
I can't breath
whenever I standing around the fresh air
because I forget how do it

No body knows
Its only a fake smile in my face
since its looks the same
because I lost the reason to smile with full of heart

No body knows
I am in bad pain
when sweet hopes n sweet words become poison
that kill me slowly

No body knows
I am praying
Wish I could draw my time back and fix all things
so I won't have this hurt feeling today

I just an ordinary person
try to hide behind
when I trapped on mysery
just act as I were strong
even I am cry when I am a lone

Friday, November 6, 2009

Could You Hold your Promise?

Have you ever feel disappointed when someone not hold her/his promise. I thought all of you ever have this experience, being so sad, so hurt very disappointed when someone not hold their promise. Nowadays, people too easy to make promise, but I think they are also too easy not hold their promise. Hurting other feeling seems to be accepted and not feel bother anymore, if you are the one who make a promise and you do not do as your promise. But hows your feeling if you are the one who become victim of other promise.

Let me give some example, you come to an investment broker,or insurance agent. You put some money in there, and they promise you that you have a high return and in their hand you will not have too much loss. Then months after that you realize that your investment amount reduce significantly, you must be very disappointed. They convince you with their promise to make you believe something, they hope they can get gain from you. But they never told you, they can't hold their promise forever, many things can affect their promise. So, what you think? Seller promise, trader promise.... you must gather information to make sure they not give you fake promise

How about personal promise, sometimes you feel easy to make promise with your friend, for example, you promise to your friend, they can ask your help anytime you need. But whenever they ask you, you just find any reason to run away from your promise. Or someday you meet a new friend, you talk a lot with them, and starting get closer. Then you have promise to your friend that you will be her friend forever, will be beside in happy or sad time, will support each other and promise that your friendship bonding will be bigger and bigger. But then your feeling start changes, even tough your friend still give you the same attention, but you feel it is not special anymore, and start have feeling that your friend bother you instead of make you happy. Could you brave enough to tell your friend honestly? Or you just run away from your promise let your friend feel hurt from you and then give up?

We know, sometime we couldn't hold our promise. But think it carefully, maybe just be honest to someone whom you promise with. its better than let them hurt because you can't hold promise. Think it if it happen in yours. I thought you will choose to know what happen exactly soon and get bad shocked rather than you wait too long to know what happen, just guessing, thinking, hurt, feel sad, bad for a long time. Don't ever think that if you not talk honestly soon, time will make your friend ready to get bad news. Believe me it will hurt them more if they spent time so long for waiting. SO could you be honest if you couldn't hold your promise? Because promise is made by you, n its your responsibility to make it happen or stop it.
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